Ready to go from poly panic to poly security?

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Ever wonder why Polyamory can feel so hard when it's supposed to be fun?  Well, we get it and we've got you!

Introducing a series of online events to help you thrive in conscious open relationships!

Raise your hand if any of these sound familiar…

You get that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach the moment you imagine your partner in bed with someone else, and you’re consumed with jealousy and insecurity. You see the benefits of an open relationship, but your body is just not going along for the ride

Your partner struggles emotionally with open relating, and you desperately want to help them feel safe. You recognize that you can't just "talk" these emotions away and you don't know what else to do!

You’re tired of conflict and endless arguments about dating new people, sexual safety, emotional safety, or rules and agreements, so you start avoiding them altogether!

Perhaps you haven't even opened up yet, or are just exploring the idea, and already there are so many tense discussions!

Dating as a polyamorous person turned out to be much harder than you expected. After all, who wants to date someone who "basically has permission to cheat''?!

If you said YES to any of these... then you’re not alone! 

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After navigating our own complex open relationships for 10 years, and after listening to thousands of our community members, we've identified 5 strategies to help you thrive in more conscious open relationships and then curated a unique set of transformative events so you can:

 

  1. Expand your Poly community
  2. Empower yourself with attachment-informed tools from top experts
  3. Focus on trauma healing
  4. Explore new poly dating options
  5. Deepen your intimacy with Tantra practices

Introducing:

The Secure Poly VIP Membership

A series of experiential events to help you create fun & secure open relationships, without sacrificing your freedom or sanity...

 

...even if you’ve tried everything else to make it work!

Meet our amazing team of experts:

In our monthly workshops, with our team of world-class coaches, we’ll take deeper dives into answering these common questions:

Why do I keep getting in “trouble” when I’m telling the truth and following our open relationship agreements? Why aren’t our agreements enough?

Why does it still feel like cheating when my partner is honest about seeing someone else? And why does it hurt so damn much?

How do I get my partner to understand how scared and jealous I get when they’re with someone else?

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How do we strike the right balance between our freedom and our responsibility to each other?

In monogamy, there are things like a ring, a marriage certificate, or a house to make us feel safe... where do we find this kind of security in non-monogamy?

My friends and family just don’t get me! How can I have a “conversation” with family members, friends, or co-workers without all the judgment?

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Where do I find the right people to date who share my non-monogamous values?

How do I find community, connection, and support as a polyamorous person?

When do I bring this up to my kids? Or do I? How do kids deal with all of this?

Why do some intimate group experiences feel awkward and how can we make them more enjoyable?

Get the straight answers to all these critical questions and so much more!

These are the five most common open relationship pitfalls & the strategies to avoid them!

#1: You feel isolated, longing for others who accept your open love style...
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Let's Expand Your Poly Community
#2: You desire more love but now you're just managing more stress...
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Let's Empower You With Critical Tools
#3: You get non monogamy but your nervous system is in panic...
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Let's Begin Your Trauma Healing
#4: You realize that dating as a poly person can be challenging...
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Let's Explore New Poly Dating Options
#5: You realize that depth of intimacy can get lost with multiple partners...
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Let's Create Next Level Intimacy
ALL FOR AS LOW AS $47 PER MONTH!

This is NOT a DIY course with boring classes and lots of homework 

 

(Who has time for all that anyway!)

 

These are hands-on, high-touch experiences to help you stress less and love more!

All of the classes, workshops & events listed below are included in your monthly membership!

Special Note: While the events listed below are game-changing, we also know that your life is full! You're not expected to attend them all. Our events repeat every month, so it's perfectly ok to pick and choose those that fit your schedule. We will send you reminders for each event. No pressure, no worries, let's take our time, Namaste! 
Poly Immersion Workshop (online) with Jessica Fern & other experts
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Saturday, July 10th

4pm ET / 1pm PT

90-Minute
Tapping (EFT) Workshop (Online)
w/ Corey
Corey Pugliese

Tuesday, July 13th

8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

Tantra Demonstration Workshop (Online)
w/ Amanda
Amanda Ananda

Wednesday, July 14th

8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

90-Minute Trauma Release Exercise
Class (Online)
w/ Danielle
Danielle Ivins-Fishman

Saturday, July 17th

5pm ET / 2pm PT

60-minute
Buteyko Breathwork Workshop (Online)
w/ Maria
Maria Shapley

Wednesday, July 21st

8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

The 2 Hour Conscious Poly Dating Salon
Event (Online)
w/ Alexandra
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Thursday, July 22nd

8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

60-minute Free Love Yoga Class
(Online)
w/ Adnan
Adnan Shamsi

Thursday, July 28th

8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

The Secure Poly VIP Membership, with UNLIMITED access to our events, is perfect for you if…

  • You’re managing more difficult open relationship conversations, instead of experiencing more love!

    Are you trying to get your partner to see that your jealousy may be an expression of your unhealed past trauma wounds? You don’t actually WANT to feel jealous! Or are you the one, on the other side, trying to convince your partner that all their insecurities are unnecessary because you love them dearly? You just want to love more!

    Included in your membership are monthly workshops, with expert polyamory coaches and therapists.

  • You sometimes feel isolated because your family, friends and lovers can't relate to your polyamorous love style.

    Imagine being a part of a thriving Poly community with over 6,500 high vibes, compassionate people, and our smaller, more intimate VIP community. This smaller VIP community includes brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, and more!

    You can finally get vulnerable, get polyamory support in a safe space, and maybe even discover new romance.

  • You’re having a hard time finding new poly people to date or finding it hard to make poly relationships last.

    First, you’ll be invited to our new favorite open relationship connection platform.

    Your membership also includes monthly speed dating salons, for making new connections and live Tantra demo classes, to deepen existing ones.

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result” - Albert Einstein. 

 

How long can you afford to keep doing this on your own without the support of a community and top experts who really get you?

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Teagan A.

“Leveled Up Love is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts have been a healing experience of support and community for me.”

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David F.

"I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that you created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality."

 

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Erin D.

"Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now."

In our Secure Poly VIP Membership, you’ll discover:

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How to End the Endless Poly Fights!

Fights over open relationships can really suck! We’re supposed to be loving more, not fighting more! Discover the blueprints to move from open relationship ruptures to repairs much faster, leaving you and your partner(s) even closer than before.

Learn how to get out of your head and into your heart by tapping into an instant state of compassion and empathy you never thought was possible. We will teach you powerful emotional attunement skills.

How to Conquer Jealousy and Find Serenity

Did you know that there are different types of jealousy?! Well, understanding them is key to resolving different emotions and resolving conflicts faster. Those inevitable moments of unexpected jealousy can also lead you to feel shame for not being “poly enough”. This can make you feel rather lonely and helpless. We’ve got your back! We’ll empower you with the specific tools needed to help you regulate your own strong emotions when your partner is with someone else and you’re in distress.

How to Win at Poly Dating & Create Awesome Group Experiences

Open relationships bring with them some unique dating challenges most are not prepared for. Learn the strategies for dating as a polyamorous person and learn how to manifest conscious group experiences to bring more play and adventure into your relationships.

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How to Get a Deeper Sense of Fulfillment from Conscious Open Relationships

Polyamory is not just about more $ex with more people. Ethical Non-monogamy can actually be about deep personal growth, transformative healing, and real opportunities to be in service to others. It’s crucial to explore which of your needs are the real driving force to be in an open relationship.

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How to Help Struggling Partners with Healing Trauma

Ultimately a poly relationship is only as strong as the “sum of its parts”. If one person has not done the prerequisite healing work, then everyone struggles! When all the rationale and talk therapy in the world doesn’t move the needle from poly panic to poly security, you'll need to look at deeper past wounds. Join our monthly workshops including TRE® (Trauma Releasing Exercises), Tapping/EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), Buteyko Breathwork, and Free Love Yoga.

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Daniela was on the verge of splitting with her partner before learning our conflict resolution blueprint...

Hear from one of our top experts...

 

“When you learn how to achieve true emotional security in an open relationship, and can move beyond just ethical non-monogamy, you’ll discover a deeper form of open relating that only comes from knowing how to give each partner the comfort they need.”

 

- Derek Hart, America's Relationship Rebuilder

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Try Our VIP Membership, with UNLIMITED Access To ALL Our Events, and a 30 Day Money Back Guarantee, No Questions Asked! 

  • Immersive Workshop (Monthly)

    A Monthly 3-Hour Deep Dive Expert Group Coaching Session with Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, Derek Hart, and/or other ENM experts. These Q&A and Emotional Attunement Workshops will be available live and recorded ($97 Value)

  • TRE, EFT, Breathwork, Yoga

    Join our monthly healing workshops and classes, including TRE® (Trauma Releasing Exercises), Tapping/EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), Buteyko Breathwork, and Free Love Yoga, to assist the body in releasing deep muscular and emotional patterns of stress, tension, and trauma. ($108 Value)

  • CNM / Polyamory Dating

    A Polyamory Dating Salon. Join a 2-hour Virtual ENM Speed Dating event to meet other conscious open relators and access our preferred poly dating app (separate partner charges apply). ($35 Value)

  • Tantra Intimacy Practices

    Monthly 90-Minute Tantra Demonstration & Instruction Classes: Create a deep, sacred connection with your current (or future) partners, honor the Yoni and Lingam as the sources of creation they are, and access the sacred healer within YOU! ($67 Value) 

  • Polyamory Community

    Join our high vibe VIP community filled with compassionate open-minded members to relate with and even find new romance. You’ll also be supported by brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure (Priceless!)

  • BONUS #1: The Open Relationship Academy

    24/7 VIP access to over 200 hours of curated content plus all the prior Secure Poly Weekend Sessions. Additional poly resources included in the Open Relationship Academy, on our Mighty Networks Channel ($27 Value)

  • BONUS #2: Discounted Private Coaching

    Access to world-class 1:1 open relationship coaches & guides (with discounted private session rates)

  • BONUS #3: The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

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  • Pre-recorded Polyamory Workshop
    ($97 VALUE)

  • Communication Blueprint Training Video & PDF
    ($127 VALUE)

  • The Open Relationship Type Guide
    ($47 VALUE)

  • The Open Relationship Agreement Guide
    ($47 VALUE)

1st Month Value:

$652

Students or Seniors Discount

VIP Membership

$47 / month

Singles: Solo Polyamorist

VIP Membership

$67 / month

Couples Throuples or Quads

VIP Membership

$97 / month

VIP Membership

Plus

Includes 1 Private
Coaching Session
per month
Special Note: While these events are game-changing, we also know that your life is already full! So you're not expected to attend them all. Since our events repeat every month, it's perfectly ok to pick and choose those that fit your schedule. We will send you reminders to join before each event. No pressure, no worries, let's take our time, Namaste!
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MONEY BACK GUARANTEE - No Questions Asked

You can expect positive results in your open relationships within 30 days or you get your money back! (*Does not include $297 VIP membership if you took a private coaching session)

 

That’s right…if you did not realize a benefit from your membership, within 30 days, we’ll refund your investment with no questions asked!. This makes your nominal investment completely risk-free!

 

You may also cancel, upgrade, or downgrade your membership at any time with no questions or hassles. Simply contact us here.

 

All monthly pricing options have a 30-Days Money-Back Guarantee, no questions asked!

Upgrade or cancel Your Plan Anytime

Simply Contact Us to request changes to your membership any time!

* Financial hardship packages are available! 

* More immersive private coaching packages are also available! 

Contact us to discuss details...

Does Open Relating Just Feel Too Hard Sometimes?

  • You or your partner spend way too much of your time and energy battling feelings of insecurity and jealousy

  • You’re “newish” to opening up your relationship and it’s not going as well as you’d like

  • You’re already super busy with life, so the idea of juggling multiple relationships just gives you a headache!

  • The idea of “coming out” as polyamorous and telling your family and friends sounds overwhelming

  • You can’t seem to find like-minded people to connect with who are also open!

Ready for a new way to experience fulfilling open relationships?

Why Choose Us?

  • Experienced

    We have a combined 11 years of experience practicing ethical and conscious non-monogamy.

     

    We've learned through our own "poly school of hard knocks" and studied frameworks such as attachment theory, core human needs and love languages.

     

    We also view challenging behaviors in polyamory through a trauma-informed lens, which alone was a game-changer.

  • Compassionate

    We are NOT one of those online polyamory communities where some people tell other people to "own their sh** and stop being so possessive".

     

    We're advocates for those who are struggling in polyamory and the beautiful partners who support them.

  • Affordable

    You could waste thousands of dollars and hours of time on therapists and relationship coaches who don’t really get open relating. They often do not have the unique tools to help you work through your unique challenges.

     

    You don’t have to DIY open relationships or drain yourself looking for polyamory counseling in all the wrong places. We’ve got you covered.

Enjoy more freedom, adventure, and love without imploding your existing relationships...

About Your Guides, Lea + Shai

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Lea’s Story

I wasn’t exactly designed or prepared for polyamory. But what I really desired from the beginning was freedom.

 

Something was telling me that this work would be worth it. I knew that I would experience many challenges, but that through the process I would uncover where my discomfort was coming from. That belief led me on a groundbreaking exploration of self-discovery.

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Shai’s Story

Even though it was hard, opening up my relationship was one of the best decisions I ever made.

 

The freedom and variety of amazing connections allowed me to grow exponentially. I've grown intellectually, spiritually, erotically, emotionally, and even professionally because of this love style.

 

 

Try Our VIP Membership, with UNLIMITED Access To ALL Our Events, and a 30 Day Money Back Guarantee, No Questions Asked! 

  • Immersive Workshop (Monthly)

    A Monthly 3-Hour Deep Dive Expert Group Coaching Session with Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, Derek Hart, and/or other ENM experts. These Q&A and Emotional Attunement Workshops will be available live and recorded ($97 Value)

  • TRE, EFT, Breathwork, Yoga

    Join our monthly healing workshops and classes, including TRE® (Trauma Releasing Exercises), Tapping/EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), Buteyko Breathwork, and Free Love Yoga, to assist the body in releasing deep muscular and emotional patterns of stress, tension, and trauma. ($108 Value)

  • CNM / Polyamory Dating

    A Polyamory Dating Salon. Join a 2-hour Virtual ENM Speed Dating event to meet other conscious open relators and access our preferred poly dating app (separate partner charges apply). ($35 Value)

  • Tantra Intimacy Practices

    Monthly 90-Minute Tantra Demonstration & Instruction Classes: Create a deep, sacred connection with your current (or future) partners, honor the Yoni and Lingam as the sources of creation they are, and access the sacred healer within YOU! ($67 Value) 

  • Polyamory Community

    Join our high vibe VIP community filled with compassionate open-minded members to relate with and even find new romance. You’ll also be supported by brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure (Priceless!)

  • BONUS #1: The Open Relationship Academy

    24/7 VIP access to over 200 hours of curated content plus all the prior Secure Poly Weekend Sessions. Additional poly resources included in the Open Relationship Academy, on our Mighty Networks Channel ($27 Value)

  • BONUS #2: Discounted Private Coaching

    Access to world-class 1:1 open relationship coaches & guides (with discounted private session rates)

  • BONUS #3: The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

Ultimate-oen-relationship
  • Pre-recorded Polyamory Workshop
    ($97 VALUE)

  • Communication Blueprint Training Video & PDF
    ($127 VALUE)

  • The Open Relationship Type Guide
    ($47 VALUE)

  • The Open Relationship Agreement Guide
    ($47 VALUE)

1st Month Value:

$652

Students or Seniors Discount

VIP Membership

$47 / month

Singles: Solo Polyamorist

VIP Membership

$67 / month

Couples Throuples or Quads

VIP Membership

$97 / month

VIP Membership

Plus

Includes 1 Private
Coaching Session
per month
Special Note: While these events are game-changing, we also know that your life is already full! So you're not expected to attend them all. Since our events repeat every month, it's perfectly ok to pick and choose those that fit your schedule. We will send you reminders to join before each event. No pressure, no worries, let's take our time, Namaste!
30-Day-Guarantee-Badge_New-Blue

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE - No Questions Asked

You can expect positive results in your open relationships within 30 days or you get your money back! (*Does not include $297 VIP membership if you took a private coaching session)

 

That’s right…if you did not realize a benefit from your membership, within 30 days, we’ll refund your investment with no questions asked!. This makes your nominal investment completely risk-free!

 

You may also cancel, upgrade, or downgrade your membership at any time with no questions or hassles. Simply contact us here.

 

All monthly pricing options have a 30-Days Money-Back Guarantee, no questions asked!

Upgrade or cancel Your Plan Anytime

Simply Contact Us to request changes to your membership any time!

* Financial hardship packages are available! 

* More immersive private coaching packages are also available! 

Contact us to discuss details...

Do You Need Deeper Polyamory Support Right Now?

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You’ll get personalized 1:1 polyamory support from Lea, Shai and their all-star team of open relationship coaches.

 

Contact us for a complimentary 30-minute introductory call.

Watch Us in Action

Poly Fight Done Right!

Watch us “make over” a common open relationship struggle (a broken boundary) using our own communications blueprint:

Have Some Questions?

Ready To Go From Poly Panic To Poly Secure?

You’ve got this, and we’ve got you!

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