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Go from Poly Panic to Poly Security!

Did you know that you can't just rationalize jealousy away?

Ready for a better way to navigate insecurity and attachment issues in open relationships?

Get the critical tools and expert guidance you need to rebuild trust, find joy, and thrive in your conscious open relationships.

Just $7 for a limited time!

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Only $7!

Raise your hand if any of these sound familiar...

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  • You get that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach the moment you imagine your partner in bed with someone else, and you’re consumed with jealousy and insecurity.

  • Insecurity creeps up, and you keep thinking that one day, out of the blue, your partner will say, “I’m in love with someone else and I'm leaving you!”

  • You fear the guilt of feeling something different with a new partner that you don’t feel with your primary partner, and it’s eating you up inside.

  • ​You feel uncomfortable bringing up subjects like dating, sexual safety, emotional intimacy, or rules and agreements, so you avoid them like the plague.

  • You can see that your partner struggles emotionally and desperately want to make them feel safe again but you don't know how.

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Did you say YES to any of these?
Then you’re not alone! But that’s not much consolation while you’re going through it...

“I reached out to Shai when I felt like I had used up all of my resources in navigating a tough spot in my primary relationship. After listening to me recap the situation, Shai shared a couple of very useful models of communication, especially SPARC, which is basically a framework for Non-violent communication that really allows you and your partner to see and listen to each other’s feelings and needs. I literally went home and used SPARC that very evening after speaking with Shai and it was the most beautiful and helpful conversation I’d had with my partner in a month. My partner was also ready to adopt this framework so we are happy to have this tool in our kit now. I’m super grateful for Shai’s stepping in during that crucial moment!”

- Chelsey Kap

Shai's Story

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After three years of discussion, my wife Danielle and I opened up our marriage. Within seven months she asked me for a DIVORCE! That moment shook me to the core. Simply put, she realized that an open relationship gave her crippling anxiety.

I couldn't understand what she meant and remember thinking..."doesn't she ultimately control her own anxiety with her thoughts...and couldn't she just see how rational the concept of free love was?!"

Over the next five years, I engaged in five more polyamorous relationships. This time though, I was mindful to set all the right expectations, communicate about all the rules up-front and STILL... more heartache and more tears!

Like clockwork, about a year into each relationship, jealousy reared its ugly head! Instead of more love, I was again managing the distress of more partners! What was I doing wrong!?

Then I met my partner Lea and everything changed. While Lea also intellectually wanted polyamory she couldn't understand why she also felt the same crippling anxiety.

When Lea later introduced me to Attachment Theory, we both learned that jealousy was not something you can just rationalize away. It's a nervous system thing!

Finally, E V E R Y T H I N G made sense!

Just because you have feelings of jealousy doesn't mean you can't have a happy and healthy open relationship!

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You’ve probably been told that everything you or your partner are feeling is WRONG.

Some poly communities say you shouldn't feel jealous, insecure, or envious of partners if you want to be poly.

Described as compersion, you should feel joy at the thought of your loved one with someone else.

But at Leveled up Love, that’s not how we roll because you can’t just flick a switch on your emotions!

The key to a fun and thriving open relationship is compersion collaboration!

It may come as a shock but insecure feelings are valid and DO have a place in open relating!

In polyamory, we’re supposed to be all about “spreading the love,” right?

When a partner is jealous, the best solution is to lovingly work through those feelings together...

...Not shame them or expect them to figure things out on their own!

That’s precisely why we created The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit!

What if there was a way for you and your partner(s) to navigate jealousy and insecurities with more ease, so you can have happy open relationships?

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What if you could turn those emotions on their head and create intimate moments that strengthen the bond between you and your partner, so you feel closer and stronger than ever?

What if you could feel safer in your relationship while your partner enjoys their freedom?

Intense jealous moments are indicators that you or your partner are suffering from something deeper than just jealous thoughts.

At Leveled Up Love, we offer the critical tools, expert guidance, and a compassionate community, so partners can rebuild trust, find joy, and thrive in their conscious open relationships!

We’re here to tell you that you can have all this and more!

Introducing

The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

Get the tools you need to navigate jealousy and insecurity in consensual non-monogamy!

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Here's What You Get In

The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

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Polyamory Mastery Workshop: 5 Steps To Revealing Blind Spots
$97 Value

In this easy-to-digest video workshop, we show you how to identify the five blind spots we see many troublesome polyamorous relationships encounter and how those can lead to feelings of jealousy, guilt, and other anxious behaviors. After this workshop, you'll be able to navigate those tricky waters with more ease and feel a weight lifted off your shoulders.

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Complete Conflict Resolution Training - Video & Ebook
$127 Value

Fights are not fun. But whether you're brand new to polyamory or you're no stranger to it, conflicts are inevitable. How would it feel if you could face a brewing conflict head-on, armed with the critical tools you need to have a healthy and positive discussion that brings your relationship closer together rather than further apart. Learn exactly how to have a 'poly fight done right!'

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The Open Relationship Type Guide
$47 Value

Did you know there are 18 different open relationship 'types'? Each one has its own qualities and understanding your partner(s) preferences is a crucial first step to thriving in open relationships. This handy guide outlines all 18 types in detail so you can understand not only what they are, but how to overcome the pitfalls specific to that type.

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FREE BONUS: The Open Relationship Agreement Guide
$47 Value

Non-monogamy brings in new relationship issues you could have never planned for and those issues can cause unnecessary suffering. This guide will help you to navigate situations such as safety boundaries, new schedules, and ongoing communication to protect your relationships and avoid feeling upset, awkward, or jealous.

Total Value: $318

Today's Price: Just $7!

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The truth is, you're at a point in your relationship where you don’t know what to do next.

Jealousy and insecurity are consuming what could be a happy and thriving open relationship.

You might be thinking ‘do we keep pushing through, or do we call it quits?’

But it doesn't need to be this way!

“Shai is a wise king! The depth of his understanding and sharing has helped me to transform into the loving and open King I've always dreamed of being. My life keeps getting better and better as I work with him! Then I met Lea too and she got me past a lot of old s**t. I have a whole new respect for women, for sex and for deep emotional connection with women long before sex! I want to thank Lea too!”

- Colin

How would your life be different if you could:

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  • Finish a healthy conversation knowing your partner truly understands your feelings, and you’re able to move forward with less anger, resentment, or jealousy.

  • Navigate your fears of abandonment and rejection with new mindsets.

  • Be equipped with tools to tackle insecure feelings when you think about your partner with another person.

  • Enjoy more freedom, adventure, and love without imploding your existing relationships.

  • Be vulnerable with your partner and have it bring you closer together instead of further apart.

  • Be happy that your partner is free to express themselves and explore their desires because you're feeling safer in your relationship.

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Inside The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit you’ll learn...

  • How to communicate with your partner in a healthy and positive way so that they become open and understanding rather than closed and defensive.

  • The 5 open relationship blind spots so you’re always prepared for the challenges non-monogamy throws your way.

  • How to share your feelings, needs and desires you didn’t think you could before investing in this toolkit.

  • How to cope with heavy emotions and achieve a life of freedom with a partner you care for.

  • The 18 different open relationship ‘types’ so you can not only find the one that’s best for your relationship but understand the unique preferences of any partner you come to care for.

  • How to manage the fears of abandonment and exclusion to find calm and inner peace.

Don't Miss Out On

The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

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  • LULlevel-up-workshop

    Polyamory Mastery Workshop: 5 Steps To Revealing Blind Spots

    $97 Value

  • LULconflict-resolution-2

    Complete Conflict Resolution Training - Video & Ebook

    $127 Value

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    The Open Relationship Type Guide

    $47 Value

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    FREE BONUS: The Open Relationship Agreement Guide

    $47 Value

Total Value: $318

Today's Price: Just $7!

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Love it or your money back!
You’re protected by our 100% money-back guarantee.

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We get it. We’ve been there. If you’re anything like us you’ve probably tried other courses or therapists and you’ve been disappointed by the results.

We had to figure things out on our own but we don’t want that for you! That’s exactly why we created the The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit. We’ve poured a lot of our knowledge and love into this easy-to-consume, essential toolkit and we know the power it can have in transforming your life and the lives of your partners.

We’re so confident that you’ll have a break-through in your relationship(s) that we’re offering a no-questions-asked money-back guarantee. If you try it and realize it’s not for you we’ll refund you with nothing but a smile on our face and love in our hearts.

This isn’t just another promise of help that doesn't deliver.

The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit was created to help people exactly like you crush those open relationship blues as quickly as possible.

Don’t forget, you’re backed by our 100% money-back guarantee so the risk is on us!

Don't let another year go by before you take action to achieve the relationships you deserve!

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You might be worried about rocking the boat and ruining the GOOD things in your relationship(s).

But if you want a life with less jealousy, guilt, and heartache, you can't stay where you are right now.

If you keep all of these feelings bottled up, where will you be in a year?

Will you still be torn between the love you have for your partner and that inner voice that says 'you can't go on like this'?

Chances are, if you don’t address these problems, you’ll be feeling exactly the same way.

These feelings won’t just go away and they will follow you around wherever you go.

But we’re here to help!

There’s never going to be a perfect time to start but this toolkit was designed to help you tackle the tough issues AND come out on the other side feeling stronger, not only in your relationships but in yourself as well.

Only $7!

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Hi, we’re Lea and Shai, founders of Leveled Up Love!

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To say we “struggled” is an understatement. At the start of our relationship, we went through hell and back, and we almost called it quits many times along the way.

The one thing that got us through was the continual discovery of new tools and mindsets that gave us hope.

Afterward, we knew that we couldn’t keep this new-found knowledge to ourselves! We needed to share it with other like-minded souls to help them through the same tough times and make their way out to the other side, just like we did!

At Leveled Up Love, we stand with those struggling with intense jealousy and their partners, who desperately want to see their anxious loved ones feel safe.

We offer the critical tools, expert guidance, and a compassionate community, so partners can rebuild trust, find joy, and thrive again in their conscious open relationships!

With us, open-relators can feel safe, seen, loved, and fully expressed while also having the freedom to explore other relationship adventures that lead to fulfilling growth, healing, and service to others.

This toolkit is something we wish we'd had before jumping into our open relationship.

Had we known these secrets before we dove in headfirst, it would’ve made the transition 1000x smoother, easier, and more peaceful.

“Paul and I, despite our deep love, were struggling with communications that always seemed to lead to misunderstandings and upset feelings. During one of our misunderstandings, I felt Paul had given up on me. Looking for a space to vent, and gather my thoughts to decide on my future, this is when I found Shai and Lea. Initially, I thought this would be some sort of conflict resolution exercise, but instead, we were met with a safe and compassionate space. This was a pivotal moment for us, grounding us and rediscovering not only what brought us together in the beginning, but why we need each other now.”

- Sarah

This toolkit is FOR YOU if...

  • You're struggling with communication and feelings of jealousy and insecurity in your polyamorous relationship and you don't know how to fix it.

  • ​You’re in a solid relationship already and you both feel that exploring polyamory is a good fit.

  • You’re a kind and caring person who is conscious of others' feelings.

  • You feel in your heart that polyamory is right for you and you're committed to making it work for you and your partner.

This toolkit is NOT FOR YOU if...

  • You think polyamory is an easy or quick fix for problems with your monogamous relationship.

  • You or your partner wish to "do things your way" instead of collaborating with each other..

  • You don't think you're capable of developing deep, meaningful connections with more than one person.

  • You're not comfortable with the idea of being confronted by your partners' emotions and struggles.

Get Instant Access To

The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

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  • LULlevel-up-workshop

    Polyamory Mastery Workshop: 5 Steps To Revealing Blind Spots

    $97 Value

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    Complete Conflict Resolution Training - Video & Ebook

    $127 Value

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    The Open Relationship Type Guide

    $47 Value

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    FREE BONUS: The Open Relationship Agreement Guide

    $47 Value

Total Value: $318

Today's Price: Just $7!

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Don't delay! Get your hands on the critical tools and expert guidance you need so you can finally rebuild trust, find joy, and thrive again in your conscious open relationships!

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