The Tantric Poly Weekend
A Live Tantra Retreat for Poly Couples, Throuples and Moresomes in the splendid Catskill Mountains of New York on Valentine’s Weekend!
Lea Aella & Shai Fishman
Open Relationship Guides
Amanda Ananda
TantricFacilitator
Friday, February 11th, 2022 3 Nights / 3 Days
Polyamory and Tantra; a Match Made in Heaven
Why are we bringing Polyamory and Tantra together?
Well, after years of struggling in various types of open relationships, we were pleasantly surprised to discover the secrets for winning in Poly relationships INSIDE the ancient wisdom of Tantra!
That’s right, the very essence of Tantra is slowing down and that applies to EVERYTHING in life, including creating conscious open relationships.
We all have the ability to slow down when we communicate through poly conflicts, or to slow down when NRE (new relationship energy) is leading us to make questionable decisions or to slow down and comfort our insecure partner/s. These are all examples of a more Tantric approach to Polyamory.
And here's a revolutionary concept for open relationships...
Maybe it's not only about our partners working through their jealousies or insecurities. Sometimes our partners are just not getting their core relational needs met in the open relationship. Perhaps they’re not getting the quality time they expect (and deserve) from the relationship. Perhaps they’re not being seen or acknowledged in the ways they need to feel connected.
And too often we can’t slow down long enough to be honest with ourselves, about our responsibility (ability to respond) to our partner/s needs. With Tantra principles, we can learn practices to slow down, bring more consciousness to those moments of jealousy, and transform insecurities into compersion and loving connection.
Deepening Intimacy In Polyamorous Relationships With Tantra Practices
Aside from slowing down wherever possible, we need to also consider the reality that while love can feel infinite, time is certainly not infinite. This means that in many polyamorous relationships we will lose significant time with our partner/s.
So we may as well put some real attention on the quality (not just the quantity) of the intimate time we have with all our partner/s. The deeper we go, the safer and more fulfilled everyone feels.
With Tantra principles, you learn how to intentionally create sacred spaces of playful devotion.
What to expect in this one-of-kind transformative getaway?
Over Valentine's Weekend (2022) you're going to experience a delicious tantric retreat and learn how to go from poly panic to poly security.
Lea & Shai will first focus on powerful tools and mindsets to help you thrive in open relationships.
Amanda will be sharing tantric practices that will help you and your partner/s create unforgettable experiences together!
You and your partner/s will:
- Discover the massive potential for pleasure and mystical experiences our human bodies hold.
- Learn how to dissolve shame and playfully unlock the body's resistance by supporting it through deep surrendering and trust in our partner/s purest intentions.
- Expand your capacity to receive and elevate your pleasure ceilings.
- Learn how to experience and create whole-body orgasms.
- Learn how to support your partner’s nervous system through sacred pleasure rituals.
- Be much closer to a sense of calm and security in your poly relationships.
- Leave feeling sexually confident, connected to your partner (or partners), and full of tools to experience ecstatic bliss time and time again.
Gift yourselves a weekend of learning and ignite a lifetime of intimacy, playfulness & pleasure!
What will we cover?
Orgasmic Chakra Breathing to open our energy bodies and connect to the original source of love.
5 Elements Energy Massage to soften and tantalize the body’s senses.
Erotic Awakening Massage to expand your vessel’s capacity to experience vast amounts of cosmic love.
Fast & Embodied Ways to Move through Rupture for Poly Constellations
Erotic Play Sheet Solution to playfully navigate getting what you truly desire in the bedroom.
The S.P.A.R.C. Method, a blueprint for conscious communication through poly disagreements.
Testimonials
"Before this workshop, I had no idea how much energy I had waiting inside me to be released.
I would say, 'I don't think I'm an orgasmic being'.
I now know I was wrong; I just hadn't unlocked the possibility yet."
Stacey Knolls
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"I thought I was with a partner that was ready to end it all!
This workshop gave my spouse a spiritual awakening and a second chance to continue on with our 20+ year marriage.
Grateful you have helped take us to the next level!"
Kim Gibson
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"Very loving space that felt safe and sacred to explore with my partner.
It was a beautiful weekend. We found our 'YES' again! A Passionate Fiery YES!
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!"
The McCarty's
What to bring?
Journal/Notebook
Ritual attire (think comfortable and sensual, adornments encouraged)
Nesting Materials (think yoga mats, pillows, blankets, PLUSH)
Coconut oil and preferred lube
Sensation objects (Think feather, light impact play toys, blindfolds)
And most importantly, your open minds and hearts
All genders, races, relationship dynamics and spiritual beliefs welcome!
What's included?
3 night, 2 day stay at a beautiful expansive lodge w/ private rooms, including a private bathroom for each.
Delicious & healthy (gluten free, dairy free, sugar free) meals prepared by our fabulous private chef.
Morning, afternoon and evening sessions, including deep dive instruction into best practices in polyamory and tantra, including erotic awakening massage.
Tentative Weekend Schedule
4:00 PM - 6:00 PM
Arrival and Meet & Greet
6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
Dinner
Prepared by our fabulous private chef
7:00 PM - 10:00 PM
Opening Ceremony
The Secure Poly Toolkit Presentation w/ Lea
7:00 AM - 8:00 AM
Morning Practice
(Optional)
8:00 AM - 9:30 AM
Breakfast
9:30 AM - 12:00 PM
Morning Session & Orgasmic Breathwork
12:00 PM - 1:00 PM
Lunch
1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Erotic Massage for Penis Owners
3:00 PM - 3:30 PM
Break
3:30 PM - 5:30 PM
S.P.A.R.C. w/ Shai
5:30 PM - 7:30 PM
Dinner
7:30 PM - 9:00 PM
Evening Tantric Ritual
7:00 AM - 8:00 AM
Morning Practice
(Optional)
8:00 AM - 9:30 AM
Breakfast
9:30 AM - 12:00 PM
Morning Session & Embodied Devotion Tools
12:00 PM - 1:00 PM
Lunch
1:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Erotic Massage for Vulva Owners
3:00 PM - 3:30 PM
Break
3:30 PM - 5:30 PM
Tantric Puja
5:30 PM - 7:30 PM
Dinner
7:30 PM - 9:00 PM
Evening Tantric Ritual
10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Departure
More Testimonials
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“This program is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts have been a healing experience of support and community for me.”
Teagan A.
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“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that you created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”
David F.
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“Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”
Erin D.
Frequently Asked Questions
About Your Facilitators
Amanda Ananda
She is an International Tantric Facilitator and Domestic Goddess of 2 outrageous young boys. Amanda has a diverse Tantrica background that allows for a unique, blissful and radiant experience to unfold in her workshops, online courses and sessions. She has studied with The School of Tribal Tantra based on Kashmir Shaivism and Shamanic Ritual, Ipsalu Tantra – Kriya Yoga based on Osho’s dynamic teachings, and Babaji Nagaraj’s esoteric Cobra Breath Technique and Urban Tantra combining modern tantric philosophy with conscious kink.
Lea Aella & Shai Fishman
When they started their polyamorous relationship, a few years ago, they were unclear on the many facets of open relating, so they struggled!
They did not fully understand their individual needs and desires when it came to open-relating. They were not aware that there are many styles of open relating. They didn’t know how their different attachment styles would play into their relating strategies. Ultimately, they were not equipped with the best tools or proper guidance, so they suffered needlessly.